Heal what hurts, communicate with honesty, and find your way back to each other.
Sex and relationship therapy for queer, neurodivergent, and nonmonogamous couples and partnerships.
Serving Olympia and all of Washington state.
Even love can feel lonely sometimes.
Does it feel like you and your partner(s) keep circling the same stuck places — no matter how much you care about each other?
You love deeply, but it feels like something gets lost in translation.
You want to understand each other — and be understood — but somehow the words don’t land the way you mean them to.
You crave connection, laughter, and the kind of physical intimacy that feels easy and alive — but instead, there’s tension, hesitation, or distance.
Your differences might feel more pronounced lately — different neurotypes, different desires for relationship structure, different kinks, or simply different ways of showing love.
When conflict happens, it’s not just about who said what. It’s about the deeper layers — fear, longing, and old patterns that quietly shape how close you can let yourself be.
I'm Ciera. I believe you are meant for relationships full of intimacy, understanding, and pleasure.
I work with clients whose relationships don’t fit a cishetero, neurotypical, monogamous script.
While it can be liberating to live and love outside those norms, it can also be confusing — leaving you and your partner(s) to navigate connection, communication, and intimacy without much guidance.
I’m here to help you not just understand one another more deeply, but to create — together — a relationship that feels connected, fulfilling, and truly your own.
My Specialties…
LGBTQ+
As queer people in relationships, you have the chance to create something new — not just follow a hetero script. That’s both an opportunity and a challenge. In therapy, I help partners explore and communicate their deepest needs and desires, creating relationships that feel as authentic, freeing, and connected as possible.
Neurodivergence
Understanding how your specific neurotypes shape your relationship can transform communication and deepen connection. Through a neurodivergent-informed and affirming lens, I help partners recognize patterns, honor differences, and find ways of relating that feel natural and supportive for everyone involved.
Nonmonogamy
Every relationship structure — from fully closed to fully open — has its benefits and its challenges. I help partners asses what structure is best for them and navigate the complexities of their chosen structure, so they can manage boundaries and emotions skillfully while fully enjoying the connection, freedom, and intimacy it provides.
Sex Therapy
Whether you’re exploring new desires, feeling a lack of spark, or navigating challenges with frequency, medical issues, kink, or BDSM — nothing is off the table in sex therapy. I create a safe, non-judgmental space to talk about what feels difficult, so you can rediscover pleasure and build a sex life that feels satisfying and true to you.
Step 1: Reach out
Contact me [here], to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation. There’s no pressure — just a chance for us to connect and see if we’re a good fit.
Step 2: Begin the work
Together, we’ll get curious about the deeper roots of your relationship patterns. You’ll gain new tools for communication, emotional regulation, and intimacy — the skills that make real change possible.
Step 3: Feel the difference
Experience renewed connection, ease, pleasure, and joy in your relationship — and in yourself.
Curious about getting started?
You don’t have to stay stuck in the same painful cycles: repeating the same arguments, avoiding the hard conversations, or settling for just… fine.
I can help you move forward, communicate with honesty and care, and rediscover joy, ease, and connection in your relationship.